Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Our Baby Bailee





What a wonderful day! Scary yes but still one of the best days ever. I went to the doctor on Monday and Was dilated to a 2. He said that we could get scheduled to get started the next day because he thought the baby was big. I couldn't pass that up. I was so excited to have this little one. So Tuesday morning we went in at 7 am. Yes very early for me, especially because we couldn't sleep at all because we were so excited. I was already starting to have contractions on my own so I am sure we would have went in today anyway. I didn't want to have petocin because I wanted to go natural. So they just broke my water. When they went to do that I was already a 4. Things progressed from there. My contractions got stronger and a lot closer together. I think that I was one tough cookie. I did my best but by 3 I was so tired and starting to puke. So I gave in and got an epidural. The best decision but I didn't know why yet. I got to take a little rest before all of the craziness. At about 515 the nurse came in and was having trouble finding an active heart beat. Other nurses were called in and the doctor rushed over. The doctor said that I had two chances to get her out if not we were going in for a C-Section. The first push you could see her head. The second one she was pulled back in. Her heart rate went down to 59 and he could tell that the cord was around her neck. He said we were going in. I was amazingly calm. I think anyway. I was just praying over and over that Bailee would be ok. Talking to her and rubbing my tummy. We got in the surgery room at 528 and she was delivered at 531. Amazing. Nate got to see everything. I was very thankful that I didn't see anything. The Doctor held her up for me to see and she was rushed off to the nursery. Nate followed close by and never left her side. He is the greatest and cutest dad ever. He helped me so much through all of this and I couldn't have done it without him. I was stitched up and brought back into the room. Miriam showed me the first pictures of my little girl and I just cried. She is so beautiful. I wasn't able to see her until 6:45 it seemed like forever. She was very healthy and ready to see the world. I was kind of out of it but just held her and nursed her. She did so awesome. Our family is getting bigger and bigger and I love it. Aleena came up to the hospital with Rachel around 7:30. She was so excited to see her new baby sister. She jumped up on the bed with me and started singing Bailee songs. She patted her, kissed her and said "I am big mom I can do it my self" She is going to be the best big sister ever. I truly never thought that the day would come that I would have a biological child. Nate always new that someday it would. I don't think that I believed it until yesterday. I guess that the last nine months wasn't a dream. I really did have this cute little baby in my tummy. I will truly miss that feeling. How amazing it was. So all in all the day was a little scary but had a great outcome. I had three amazing people to share this birthing experience with. My wonderful husband of course he kept me so calm, massaged my back, played with my hair and was there for me each second of the day. My dearest mother-in-law some may think that is odd. But I love my mother-in-law so much and I knew that it would mean so much to her. She was always on top of everything and ready to do anything that was asked of her. And that other person that I got to share this wonderful day with was my sister Miriam. I was so glad that she was able to be there with me. She has never had the opportunity to be in a delivery room and I am so happy that she wanted to be there with me. She also helped me stay so calm. Reassuring me often that "I could do this" "Just a few more minute" I want to thank each one of them for being a big part of my life. And for helping me enjoy one of the best days ever.
As of today I am recovering good. I have been up walking around many times. Bailee is doing great also. She has been laying on my chest as I have been writing. I love spending each minute with her. A couple of the cute things that Aleena has said while our stay here; "Mom I have got so many presents on Bailee's birthday, I like this", then when one of the nurses came in she said "Someone broke my moms water" She has no idea what that even means. Then she wasn't paying any attention to Bailee and the nurse took her out for testing. Aleena looked around and said very concerned "Mom they took my sister away" I am so excited for all of the journey to come. Thank you everyone for all of your prayers.

3 comments:

Julia Izzy said...

congrats! she is so so cute! i love the name!

Miriam Lee said...

All who read this post have to know---Naomi REALLY was super calm and kept her emotions in tact extremely well throughout this entire day!! I tried not to have a heart-attack--but SHE was great!! And---it was pretty amazing to see her go for hours of extreme contractions with such focus and determination. Six hours til she was dialated to a 7. I actually think she could have kept going had she not started vomitting. But--it was meant to be that she not keep going the natural route. Wjat a miraculous day!!! I am so lucky to have been a part of it!!

Amanda said...

Congrats youguys! She is adorable. what an amazing experience.

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